Overview

Members of our university community identify with all types of sexual identities. Be sure to respect and honor all identities of colleagues and classmates, both those communicated explicitly and implicitly.
 
Do not implicitly or explicitly associate LGBTQIA+ identities with negative traits (e.g., deviance, abuse). This type of language dates to former notions of psychological disorder and portrays LGBTQIA+ people as less than human, mentally ill, or dangerous to society. It also inappropriately insinuates that LGBTQIA+ people pose a threat to society, families, and children. 

While some members of LGBTQIA+ communities have reclaimed historical epithets as words to describe themselves, please refer back to the guiding questions offered in this resource to determine how to approach use of these terms.

Glossary of Sexuality-Related Terms

Ally | A term used to describe someone who is actively supportive of LGBTQIA+ people. It encompasses straight and cisgender allies, as well as those within the LGBTQIA+ community who support each other (e.g., a lesbian who is an ally to the bisexual community). 
 
Asexual | Often called “ace” for short, asexual refers to a complete or partial lack of sexual attraction or lack of interest in sexual activity with others. Asexuality exists on a spectrum, and asexual people may experience no, little or conditional sexual attraction. 
 
Biphobia | The fear and hatred of, or discomfort with, people who love and are sexually attracted to more than one gender. 
 
Bisexual, Bi | A person emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to more than one sex, gender or gender identity though not necessarily simultaneously, in the same way or to the same degree. Sometimes used interchangeably with pansexual. 
 
Coming Out | The process in which a person first acknowledges, accepts and appreciates their sexual orientation or gender identity and begins to share that with others 
 
Gay | A person who is emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to members of the same gender. Men, women and non-binary people may use this term to describe themselves. 
 
Homophobia | The fear and hatred of or discomfort with people who are attracted to members of the same sex. 
 
Lesbian | A woman who is emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to other women. Women and non-binary people may use this term to describe themselves. 

LGBTQIA+ | An acronym for “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, and asexual” with a "+" sign to recognize the limitless sexual orientations and gender identities used by members of our community. Be sure to use the acronym that most closely represents the community you’re referencing. For example, if you are not actively referencing those who identify as intersex or asexual, “LGBT+” will likely be more accurate than “LGBTQIA+.” 
 
Outing | Exposing someone’s lesbian, gay, bisexual transgender or gender non-binary identity to others without their permission. Outing someone can have serious repercussions on employment, economic stability, personal safety or religious or family situations. 
 
Pansexual | Describes someone who has the potential for emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to people of any gender though not necessarily simultaneously, in the same way or to the same degree. Sometimes used interchangeably with bisexual. 
 
Queer | A term people often use to express a spectrum of identities and orientations that are counter to the mainstream. Queer is often used as a catch-all to include many people, including those who do not identify as exclusively straight and/or folks who have non-binary or gender-expansive identities. This term was previously used as a slur, but has been reclaimed by many parts of the LGBTQIA+ movement. 
 
Questioning | A term used to describe people who are in the process of exploring their sexual orientation or gender identity. 
 
Same-gender loving (SGL) | A term some (especially within Black communities) prefer to use instead of lesbian, gay or bisexual to express attraction to and love of people of the same gender. 
 
Sexual orientation | An inherent or immutable enduring emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to other people. Note: an individual’s sexual orientation is independent of their gender identity. 
 
Two-Spirit | An adjective used by some Indigenous and First Nations people as an umbrella term to describe people who are not straight and/or cisgender. Many Indigenous communities have specific words in their language to describe these experiences, but some do not. This term should not be used to describe people who are not Indigenous. Only use it for an Indigenous person if they use it to describe themselves. 

What to Say and What Not to Say

Say This Not This Here's Why 
LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA+ 
Transgender people 
Trans, nonbinary, folks, folx 
Genderqueer  
Queer* 
Transgendered 
Transsexual (unless being used medically) 
These terms are outdated or considered a slur. 
* Consider the audience when using the term “queer" given its historical use as a slur; many LGBTQIA+ members and academic literature have now reclaimed it. 
LGBTQ+ community, LGBTQIA+ community, etc. Gay community (when used as an umbrella term) Gay typically refers to one of many communities and is not inclusive of all 
Gay, Lesbian, Queer, etc. 
Relationship 
Homosexual 
Homosexual relations/ship 
Sounds more medical than affirming a lived identity 
Sexual orientation Sexual preference Preference invalidates identity and implies choice 
LGBTQIA+ people and their lives Lifestyle Inaccurately implies LGBTQIA+ people voluntarily chose their lived identity ​